I sent my only ex I care about in a friendship sort of way an email to get back in touch. She’s married, but I do believe I have the tact to pull this off and balance the boundaries successfully. I’ve been rather refined my whole life, and it’s only gotten better. Some might laugh at that. I’ve been pro-culture pro-sophistication. It’s been a long road. I think this will work. I just need more friends, and she was a good friend.